| Emotional
Reactions to Domestic Violence |
| Symptom |
Example
of Reaction |
| Fear/terror |
Clients may
fear that their partner may escalate the violence, that it may result
in their death or that of children.
|
| Fear
may be present even if she has separated, sought legal intervention.
|
| Autonomic
arousal may occur, hypervigilence |
|
Intrusive Symptoms |
Nightmares,
flashbacks, sleep disturbances, intrusive thoughts |
| Avoidance
Responses |
Minimization/denial,
psychic numbing, failure to acknowledge abuse |
| Anxiety
|
Panic
disorders, nervousness |
| Sleep
disturbances |
Unable
to get to sleep, remain asleep |
| Anger
|
Anger
at self, at abuser, at system, at family members |
| Grief/
depression/ suicide attempts |
Grief
over loss of relationship, home |
| Shame
|
Embarrassment
|
| Low
Self-Esteem |
Feelings
of worthlessness, being unattractive, not desirable, unable to do
anything well |
| Somatic
Complaints |
Headaches,
stomach aches, loss of appetite |
| Addictive
behavior |
Increased
use of alcohol or other substances to deal with symptoms described
above |
| Cognitive
dysfunctions |
Learned helplessness, attribution of self-blame tolerance/acceptance/justification
of abuse |
| Relational
disturbances |
Problems
related to abuse, sexual dysfunction, difficulty with intimacy, pathological
dependency upon abuser |
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