Even though there are many reasons why leaving an abusive partner or relationship is difficult for older victims, some do find the courage to leave. Some studies claim that approximately one-third of elder victims of domestic violence do leave the abusive situation eventually. Most have greater levels of support than those who remain. Many victims, finding little support in the community and facing poverty or homelessness, are left with little choice but to return to their abusers.

Overcoming the Barriers
Even though the obstacles to starting a new life faced by elder victims of domestic violence can seem insurmountable, progress is being made. Every day more survivors are escaping their abusers and beginning a new violence-free life with the help of friends, advocates, and professionals. Some factors contributing to this success are:

• In the past, elder battered women did not often get divorced. However, there are indications that this trend may be changing. They have witnessed their daughters divorcing and surviving, which helps them realize that empowerment is possible and acceptable.
   
• Some elder women have accumulated financial stability and no longer have children in the home to consider, making it easier for them to live independently.
   
• Women today are more independent than ever. Older women see the independence of their peers in support groups, which can serve as an inspiration to them.
   
• Realizing that seniors have proven to be reliable, trustworthy, and dedicated workers, many companies are turning to senior citizens to fill jobs. Grocery stores, department stores, and large market stores (Wal-Mart, K-Mart, etc.) are just a few of the places where elders can be found working full and part-time jobs.
   
• Traditionally, elders have not been open to the idea of support groups. These are an innovation of modern times where people come together to discuss a common problem and derive support and compassion from one another. Recently however, seniors have been participating in more support groups for everything from arthritis to widowhood. Elder domestic violence support groups are in existence and can play a very important role in the empowerment of a victim.
                                                                                                                        

• Recent years have shown a dramatic increase in public education campaigns. Public education on domestic violence and many other issues has helped seniors discover their options.